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Old 07-04-2012, 09:32 PM   #11
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I just keep hoping and praying that everything will turn around. It's actually what I cling to.

Rather, I hope he stops being a piece of shit and I stop reacting to his antagonistic behavior more or less. It is what it is. Family dynamics. My brother and I have had our fair share of physical fights (15 years of them). I just keep hoping that one day he will accept me for who I am. Last fight I had with my Mom on the issue, I was told to accept him for who he is, but she's changed. I should say, changed in regards to me...not entirely. I just hope things will get better in the future is all. And sometimes I just need to vent off my frustrations, before I create a war. It just sucks, is all...

But, I am who I am, I accept who I am, and I will fight for anyone that faces intolerance.

I once had to canvass someone who was mentally disabled, and persuade them...

Worst experience of my entire life.
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Old 07-04-2012, 09:36 PM   #12
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maybe he will grow up and realize that he truly loves you for you. some people take a while.
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Old 07-04-2012, 09:49 PM   #13
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Quite frankly, after the year my family has had - that should be realized at this point. I just think he doesn't realize what an asshole he is and how he comes across to people.
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Old 07-04-2012, 11:49 PM   #14
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Definitely has its ups and downs. Lost my mom a couple of weeks ago and I tell you I am so grateful for my family and the parents I had. So thankful my mom didn't become a nun like she originally wanted to, because my 4 siblings are my best friends however we've definitely had our moments with our parents and with each other. It's a work in progress. I actually think it's supposed to be that way. i really cherish every second I have with them no matter how tough. We do tell each other we love each other everytime we see one another but I can't say that we always got along especially when we were young like you and your brother are. We're old now. lol One of my sisters my dear dear best friend who is only 15 months older than me actually punched me in the face when we were in our teens and broke my glasses, so I pushed her in the well. haha we got in big trouble for that but I hated her at that moment.
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Quite frankly, after the year my family has had - that should be realized at this point. I just think he doesn't realize what an asshole he is and how he comes across to people.
You have grown so much over the years......keep up the good work. Life is not fair & it is certainly not easy but for what it is worth I am so very proud that I have been able to read & watch you grow into a fine young man!
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Sphinx...You know I love you a virtual hug...Your brother is an ass....But I have been thinking about this....Maybe he is afraid because he has gay thoughts and takes it out on you for being so open about it? Possible?

I am so glad you and your Mother are getting along...If I were your Mother you brother would have had a slap up side his head...That's just me...It's wrong, But stay strong! One day he will see you are a good person, look at your niece as an unconditional love and be proud of who you are!
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